A cyclone doesn't make for a great road experience

Hello to all our family and friends,

It has been several weeks since we last wrote. During that time, we have been busy working to get the Seminary, Institute, and Succeed in School programs ramped back up here on the island. A few weeks ago, however, we were able to take a short break and travel to New Zealand. While there, we attended the temple and spent time seeing the beautiful sights around both the northern and southern parts of the country.

One of the things we loved most about the trip was being in the temple. It reminded us how much we miss attending regularly. We are especially looking forward to the completion of the temple on the island of Efate, where we are currently serving, which is expected to be finished later this year. It will be such a blessing for the members here, who currently must travel to Fiji, New Zealand, or Australia to do their temple work.

We could easily fill this entire letter describing the many places we visited in New Zealand, but we want to keep this message focused on our missionary experience. At the end of the letter, we will include a few pictures so you can see a small glimpse of how magnificent New Zealand truly is. For those who are interested, we will also share more pictures and information on our Facebook pages.

While we were in New Zealand, a Category 2 cyclone named Urmil passed south of Port Vila near the island of Tanna. Even though it did not hit our island directly, the effects were still felt here. Over a period of seven days, different parts of the island received between 30 to 50 inches of rain reportedly. When that much rain comes through this island, the roads here quickly deteriorate, turning into deep trenches and large potholes.

When we returned, that is exactly what we found across much of the road system. Storms were still moving through the area when we landed back from our New Zealand trip. In fact, as our pilot approached the runway, he had already lowered the landing gear and was just about to touch down when a heavy downpour suddenly swept across the airport. With visibility dropping quickly, he pulled the plane back up and circled until the rain eased enough for a safe landing.   Mom, I thought of you when this happened knowing how much you don’t love flying and tend to have experiences like this.

Before and after our trip, we have stayed very busy working to move the Seminary and Institute (S&I) programs forward in our assigned areas. Since the beginning of the school year here, which starts in late January, we have noticed that many of the programs we work with are taking longer than expected to get fully underway. Seminary enrollment, in particular, has been slow.

For example, across the Vanuatu Port Vila Stake we learned on Saturday that just over 50 youth are officially registered for seminary, even though nearly 600 are eligible to attend. We know the numbers are not completely accurate because many more students are already attending classes, but entering the registration information into the system has proven to be difficult.

A good example of these challenges comes from the island of Tanna. This past Wednesday, during our monthly ministering meeting for that location, the S&I supervisor, Marie, explained some of the difficulties they are facing, including training teachers and submitting student registrations. Many of the wards and branches where seminary is taught do not have reliable internet access, if they have access at all, and some teachers do not even have phones. Because of this, they cannot easily submit records. In addition, many do not have access to membership records, which makes completing registrations even more difficult.

Another challenge is the high turnover among teachers. Several have left only a few weeks after beginning their assignments. When we asked why this was happening, she explained that many receive opportunities to travel to New Zealand or Australia for seasonal fruit-picking jobs. When those jobs become available, they often leave immediately, sometimes with little or no notice.

We have encouraged her to work closely with priesthood leaders in the various church units to help gather the needed information. While that may sound simple for those in the United States, visiting these locations and coordinating with leaders can be a logistical challenge here on the islands. Tanna is not a small island, and traveling between areas requires access to a car, taxi, or bus; and even then transportation can be unpredictable. We are hoping to fly to Tanna in the near future to help with training new teachers, but in the meantime we will continue working with her from here and provide ideas that may make the process a little easier.

Recently we also reached the six-month mark of our missionary service. It is hard to believe how quickly the time has passed. During these months we have been tremendously blessed with opportunities to grow together. One thing I have especially enjoyed is seeing even more clearly the many talents my wife has. She is a wonderful and inspired teacher.

Darleen truly loves teaching. She spends time studying the material carefully so she can determine the best way to present the message and help others truly understand. I tend to approach teaching a little differently. I often move quickly and focus on the main points rather than going deeply into the discussion. Watching her teach has helped me see how much richer the experience can be when we slow down and allow the Spirit to guide the conversation.

As we continue serving here in the Vanuatu Port Vila Stake, we are receiving weekly opportunities to teach youth and young single adults. This past Saturday was a great example of how studying and relying on the Spirit can bless our teaching.

In-Service S&I meeting attendees this Saturday

Darleen and I led an in-service training for Seminary and Institute teachers across the stake. We had invited over 30 teachers to attend, but about half that number were able to come. Even so, it was better than the three who were present when the meeting first began! We were grateful for those who made the effort to attend.

Our focus for the training was helping students become more diligent learners. I conducted the meeting, while Darleen invited several teachers to participate by sharing spiritual thoughts, ministering experiences, music, and prayers. She talked about ways teachers can involve students more actively in lessons by asking thoughtful questions, encouraging discussion, and allowing students to respond to each other instead of immediately providing the answer themselves.

Asking thoughtful questions allows students to take part in the learning process and share their knowledge, experiences, and testimonies of the gospel of Jesus Christ.

Darleen also suggested finding ways for students to take on some of the responsibilities that teachers normally handle, giving them opportunities to grow through participation. While these ideas may sound simple, it can sometimes be difficult here to get students to speak up. And when they do, they often speak very quietly, making it hard for others to hear them. Darleen challenged the teachers to ask questions at least two or three times during each lesson so students can begin developing the habit of responding and participating.

I also demonstrated how this approach could work by walking through one of the upcoming seminary lessons. I showed the teachers that many of these teaching opportunities are already built into the curriculum—they simply need to recognize them and take advantage of them as they teach.

Another special experience this week came when we were asked to pick up Elder Damon Page, an Area Authority Seventy from Melbourne, Australia. He flew in to attend a district conference on the island of Malakula and had a one-day layover here in Port Vila.

Dinner with Elder Page and other Senior
Missionaries

That evening we had dinner with Elder Page and the other senior missionaries. During our time together he expressed gratitude for the service of senior missionaries and said he was witnessing the Law of Consecration in action. He shared how senior missionaries give up much in order to give their all in helping build the kingdom of God, including leaving behind family and many comforts of home.

It was a blessing to spend time with him and feel the Spirit he brings. He also shared some insight into the behind-the-scenes work that takes place in Church administration, especially regarding the responsibilities of Area Authority Seventies. The next morning I had the opportunity to take him to the airport for his early flight to Malakula, which gave us another chance to visit and enjoy his testimony of the Savior.

Our conversations with Elder Page naturally turned our thoughts toward family. We have also been made aware of a family member and two dear friends who passed away this week. As we reflected on how special families are, we used our traditional Sunday evening senior missionary gathering to share a message about families.

Each Sunday at 6:00 p.m., the senior missionaries gather together, rotating between our apartments to host the evening. This past Sunday it was held at our apartment. Darleen began the gathering by sharing about our opportunity to meet with Elder Page and the messages he shared about families. She also spoke about some of the recent losses our family has experienced while we have been on our mission, and others shared experiences of their own losses as well.

We know that death is not the end of family associations. We are grateful for the knowledge that families can be together eternally, and we pray for those who are mourning the loss of loved ones. After a short discussion, Darleen shared an uplifting message from our prophet about the importance of God’s eternal plan for families.

Afterward, we shifted gears and had some fun by playing a game of Family Feud. We played ten rounds plus a speed round for the winners. I had found a PowerPoint template for the game a few years ago that I used during a family vacation, and I was able to reuse it by adding new survey questions and answers from “100 LDS members who were surveyed.” It turned into a very enjoyable evening, and we think everyone had a great time. Darleen was also pleased that most of the cookies she had baked had disappeared!

A recent change for us is that we have officially handed over the housing responsibilities on our island to a new senior missionary couple. They will now oversee the fleet of mission vehicles and all the missionary housing across Vanuatu.

We are a little sad to see that assignment go because it gave us many opportunities to interact with the proselyting missionaries while inspecting their apartments or fixing whatever had broken that week. We will miss those interactions, but we are grateful to have the Becks here to take over and focus on the work full-time rather than the part-time effort we were able to give it. It is also wonderful to have more senior missionaries here to serve alongside and get to know.

Even though the Becks are assuming the housing responsibilities, I agreed to see one last situation through to completion. We have two sets of missionaries serving in our ward area whose landlord recently raised their rent by 31%. That increase caused me to start searching for another option that would cost less.

I was excited to find a newly built duplex nearby that would actually cost 25–30% less than the original rent at the current apartment, and it would be brand new.

Unfinished apartment for the missionaries ... 
A bathroom area we just need the lights,
hardware, toilet, and sink!!!

The landlord originally told us the duplex would be finished in February. Wanting to be cautious, we decided to build in a one-month buffer before planning the move. Unfortunately, the “buffer” may not be enough. It now looks like construction will take at least another month, and to add to the adventure, the landlord has not answered my phone calls for the past two weeks. When we drive by the property, we also notice that no one seems to be working on it.

Meanwhile, we had already given notice for the missionaries to vacate their current apartment by April 1st…which means we may soon have missionaries with their bags packed but no new apartment ready. I am now trying to see if we can extend their current lease for another month while we wait and hope the duplex will actually be completed.

Darleen and the ocean views from one of our favorite places
to eat lunch ... we went yesterday and didn't want to leave.  
One phrase we hear often in Vanuatu is, “That’s island time.” Island time definitely moves at its own pace. Even though the Becks are taking over the housing program, I told them I would see this situation through until it is finished. At this point, I just hope the finish line arrives before my patience runs out, or before we have homeless missionaries living in tents.

While I am learning patience through this experience with “island time,” I am also learning something else. God has placed some truly beautiful spirits on these islands. I often think about the scriptures where the Lord speaks of the blessings promised to those who live upon the isles of the sea.

One example is in 2 Nephi 10:21: “But great are the promises of the Lord unto them who are upon the isles of the sea….”

One of those promises is that they will be numbered among His people. To me, that means they will never be forgotten. As we serve here, it becomes easier to see those promises being fulfilled. Even without many modern conveniences, the people here live surrounded by incredible beauty, and they possess a warmth and faith that is inspiring to witness.

We love you all and think about you often from afar across the oceans.

Darleen & Mark, Nana & Papa, and Mom & Dad

Additional Pictures memories from these past several weeks


Line of cows walking up the path
close to Hobbiton

Hobbiton - "the shire"


An area past Milford Sound ... a vanishing
glacier on the top of the mountain is in the 
background

Milford Sound on the South Island

Milford Sound on the South Island


In the trees in the Redwood forest in Rotorua

Redwoods in Rotorua

Comments

  1. Beautiful pictures. You are both doing such a great work. While you were having your cyclone. We got a tornado in our area. F3. 150 mph winds. 3 1/2 mile wide. Many homes were damaged. Our son lost 1/2 of his house. Many people have been so kind and generous. I hope your cyclone experience allowed everyone to be safe. We are thankful for all that you are doing for the good people there.
    ❤️🙏. The Horchems.

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